and on the title, I would say it's incredibly easy to be cheesy and only beneficial, when cheese is put on the right things. I mean..no one likes cheese on fish, right? apparently not. or maybe it's good on everything, who knows.
I would say it's not easy: -trying to help a bunch of misguided angry teenagers make sensible, civil, empowered choices -caring about people who are just exploiting you for personal gain -having the weight of the world rest on your shoulders -seeing your support system being attacked and not knowing how to defend it -knowing what someone else is going through if you have not been through it yourself, and I'm willing to bet that not a whole lot of the people talking shit have been in my exact position
however...I would like to commend you for applying a negative message in a positive way to inspire action. perhaps people understand how these forces work after all.